The way to be perfect and never ‘fail’ is to give yourself permission to TEST every desired outcome.
Once you realize that there is always some kind of improvement that can be made, the goal then can become, ‘how can I make this even better?’ instead of ‘how can i make this perfect, so I don’t fail?’ (and thus never try because nobody wants to feel like a failure because that stops us from trying due to our greatest fear that we might not be enough and thus won’t be loved).
Testing means trying 2 different methods of getting a desired result, then measuring and comparing the results. To do this we have to realize there is not only one way to get to an outcome you desire – there are a million plus ways! So, you Test two of them, look at the effectiveness of each, notice how one action or method or strategy or training or sales letter or attempt to find/create a 3 Dimentional relationship (where, your partner’s needs ARE your needs, so your in the relationship to fulfill them rather than to take) or one way of feeling great in every moment of every day – then you compare the results of each and ask yourself, ‘which of these worked better at producing the result I want?’ Then you use the better strategy as the new stardard to test against.
You then merely test your current ‘best’ strategy against another wild or seemingly crazy or logically sound method to see which of those two methods work better … and so on.
It’s a never ending cyle that gets you measured improved results, but that allows you to take action without being perfect because it’s just a Test, just a Try, just a Science Experiment that your sense of Identity is not tied to whether it works or not!
Plus it can be super fun and is a systematic way to constantly work on providing more value than anyone else – the key to becoming wealthy i every area of your life.
I hope this technique, or better yet this way of thinking, can produce exponentially better and fulfilling results for you in the areas of your physical energy, emotional states (allowing you to be a testing scientist instead of needing to be a Perfectionist – which causes stress/fear because that’s an impossible and boring standard), your Relationships, making your Time more effective because you’re measuring results, in your Business and Marketing efforts, your Finances and investments as well as how you Reward and celebrate your victorious. The possibilities are now unlimited and we can let Fear of Failure (the thing that’s stoops most people from ever taking action) go and we can be free.
I love you, Thank you.
Alex Beyer, Esquire
http://www.StateStoryStrategy.com
‘The world is our Playground, Love is our Legacy.’
Constant And Never-ending Improvement 